PERSPECTIVE: AN ENTERTAINING GAME

 

Perspective is an entertaining game to while away many minutes in thought experiments.

 

Consider the same event from different perspectives. For example, something very challenging has happened to you.  It could be a death, a divorce, a diagnosis, or anything else.  But it has shaken you to the core, so that you doubt whether you’ll ever be able to find peace again.

 

Close up of a woman's face, deep in thought, sober, superimposed over a night sky full of stars, so that some of the stars are visible on her face.

 

The perspective you are currently using is human and ego-centered. This event is strongly threatening your sense of self,  of who you think you are, or want to be. You may even be thinking of ending your life.  You do not see how you can continue as the self you were, or want to be, under this onslaught.  You are constantly full of fear and anxiety, your thoughts race, you take drugs, you are afraid.

This is the perspective of a being who believes her life is finite and can be ended by anything.

 

 

A drop of water rising up from a still blue pool

 

Now take another perspective.  You are a divine being, sent to this plane to face challenges, meet them, and end them for all the fellow beings to come.  No less than that is your brief. You are great.  Nothing can end or touch your life, which is eternal. As a human you may feel like a drop of water somehow separated from the ocean, but as a divine being you know you never left it.

Your return to its endless, enclosing calm is certain, assured, and indeed has already taken place.

How would you act?

 

Two large pohutukawa trees, planted close together, with their spreading crimson crowns. New Zealand

 

You would remember at every moment who you are, and know that it was impossible to be disturbed. You would look upon the events, the vicissitudes of life, as upon a miniature train meandering like an ant through a far valley, which you gazed upon “silent, upon a peak in Darien.”  You would wear a crown of imperturbability. And your actions?  You would act as inwardly directed, with calm, quiet decisiveness, and – always – with love.

 

 

For tho’ from out our bourne of Time and Place

the flood may bear me far,

I hope to see my Pilot face to face

When I have crost the bar.

Alfred, Lord Tennyson

I hope to see my Pilot face to face

I hope to see my Pilot face to face

DIMENSION: STEP IT UP

 

A drawing of a two-dimensional creature, a blob with eyes and a mouth

 

Imagine a two-dimensional creature. Every other creature in its world is of the same measure.  Circles, blobs or splotches, they move sideways, or back and forth, but never up and down.

There are no words for “up” or “down”, since these concepts don’t exist.  The creature encounters all the same problems as its neighbors. They are constantly getting in each other’s way. Because of their limited vision, they think there is never enough space. They can’t see what’s coming. They can perceive only what is around them, what they can touch and smell, what is obvious.

 

A chessboard with three pieces, the white queen down, a black bishop and pawn still standing

 

They compete for space on their checkerboard, unaware of the space that extends infinitely all around them. Life has handed them existential difficulties, problems they lack the power to solve. Their mindset becomes chronically depressed. They obsess over trifles.

They despair.

 

Sad, despairing wooden puppets, arms hanging uselessly

 

Now imagine a three dimensional creature observing them.  At first he is amused to see these creatures fussing and fretting about problems whose solution is so laughably obvious. The addition of a third dimension would solve everything they see as a problem. These creatures are comical. It is like watching moths throwing themselves fitfully, desperately at a flame.

 

 

After a while, the three dimensional creature grows bored watching such needless futility and turns away.

 

A very young baby looking up with an expression of wonder

 

Now imagine one of the two-dimensional creatures becoming aware that there is space all around him.  He looks up and sees the vault of heaven. How this dwarfs all the foolish machinations he had been involved in before! There is no end of space; why was he concentrating on his neighbors?

 

He feels inspired, lifted up, made new.  He is a new creature. Awareness of his new dimension begets the ability to live and move in it.  He pushes off, slowly at first, as a jellyfish impelling, then gathering speed and joy.

 

Increase my dimension

 

 

A jellyfish in deep dark ocean, its center well lit, circular and symmetrical with dark stripes, and flowing out behind, filaments of legs.

FEELINGS HAVE NO VALIDITY

Feelings

You talk about your feelings a lot. You confront others with them, as though they were responsible for them, or interested.

Feelings neither have, nor confer, validity.

Just because you have feelings, does not mean that anything exists.

 

Your feelings are your creations, the results of decisions of yours.  For example, if you feel slighted by some instance of lack of attention your way, you can take on jealousy, anger, or spite.  These feelings get very strong quickly and distract you from anything else.  From what could they proceed but your previous decision as to how much attention you deserve? You decided you should be worthy of a certain amount of attention first.

 

Closeup of an angry baboon

 

All negative feelings come from some decision made by the ego.  All negative emotions are tools of the ego.  Jealousy, hatred, anxiety, unease, insecurity:  these are all its beloved terrain. Ego wants nothing more than for you to be endlessly embroiled.  When you are taken over by feelings, you lose your capacity to ask questions, and so you remain unawakened, unconscious.

 

A pair of feet, chained

 

Do not get involved in the rights and wrongs of any situation.  To do so is an attempt to assign blame.  Assigning blame is a useless endeavor because it prevents you from seeing your own part in any situation that you are experiencing.  Refuse to pick up blame.  It is one of ego’s most seductive tools.  You can waste a lifetime in blame.

 

A frightened young woman, fists covering her mouth.

 

If you feel uncomfortable in a situation, ill-used and undervalued, take steps to immediately get out of it.  Why have you set yourself as a being who deserves all this unhappiness?  Why have you chosen this?  What is your idea of yourself?  Who do you think you are?  Are you some composite of past perceived mistakes and successes? Must you be always working on yourself?

 

Or are you an infinite, already created being?

 

All negative feelings are the ego’s work.  They proceed from a small self-image, the perspective of a creature who feels threatened.  Only the threatened can experience fear, pain and rejection.

If you choose the perspective of an infinite, already created being, you know your existence is guaranteed forever, in a place where time has no meaning.  There would be no need to create yourself.  Without threats, you could only be calm, unafraid and endlessly present.

 

A mother orangutan snuggling with her golden haired baby.

 

When negative feelings gnaw at your insides, it is ego wielding them to get your attention.  If an uneasy situation recurs, say the conduit prayer over it, dismiss it.  After a while, it will cease to be a problem.

 

Remember who you are

 

Two dolphins leaping over waves toward the open ocean

 

PARTIAL VISION: THE BODY’S EYES

Your vision is partial

You, who always think you know enough about a situation to judge of it, would save yourself much grief if you would remember that your vision is partial.

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How many times have you been surprised by new developments in any situation?  Each time this happens, it should remind you that your vision is partial. There is always more to any situation than you perceive.

How many times have you judged a situation? How many times have you blamed someone?  How many times have you been moved to anger by the actions of other people? Have you ever let go of judgments after they have been proved wrong or lacking in scope? Do you find it hard to give up judgments?  Judgments bring grief and distress. Wouldn’t it be easier to withhold judgment, pleading ignorance of all the facts?

You see only what you have words for.  You see only what you believe already exists. Do you think there could exist concepts that you yet have no words for? Of course there must, just as today there exist concepts that you did not have words for twenty years ago. Everything exists forever, but your vision is entirely dependent on your perspective.

Collage of words: cloud, search, social media, all to depict ideas we did not have twenty years ago.

How many of your beliefs come from the time, place, or gender in which you live?

Would you have advocated for gay marriage in the 1920s? Would you have been the plantation owner who freed his slaves in 1820? Plato and Aristotle, both great teachers of mankind, justified the existence of slaves. Most people are typical products of their time and place, accepting more beliefs than they examine.

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May I be freed of the typical beliefs of my time, place, and gender. May I give up all judgments. May I be open to knowledge instead.

Many of your beliefs are held at the unconscious level, but they entirely dictate what you will be able to see. If you think all members of a political group are idiots, that another race is lazy, or ignorant, that one sex is controlling, or irresponsible, or unreliable, you will see examples everywhere you look. But what are you seeing but your own creations? Out of infinity, you are choosing to see only what accords with your beliefs.

Why would you do this?

Man deep in thought, worried

There is no possibility you could see everything that exists in a situation: the motives, pasts, and fears of everyone involved, or what is going to happen next, and how this is going to affect everyone. It is not possible for you to know all of this. You may think you do know everything about a situation, and so this allows you to judge of it, and tell others what they should do, and why they are wrong.

But consider this, friend. Every time an event is coming up in your life, you picture to yourself how it will be and how it will look. You are always wrong in this. The reality of what comes to pass is beyond your knowledge to predict. Is the child you have anything like the child you imagined you would have?

Human vision is limited, deals in named quantities, prefers what it already knows, and is uncomfortable with not knowing.

But you do not need to rely on it.

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DIFFERENCES: LET THEM GO

Four brown horses cantering on a wide grassy plain with a double rainbow behind them.

Can you imagine a world in which there was no duality, with no differences?  Neither starve nor fat could exist, because everything would be perfection. Everything would blend together in such harmony that nothing could protrude enough to be noticed. There would be no more to do than relax, sink into and become the harmony of the spheres, with waves of peace and joy washing through you.

A young girl stares quizzically and beautifully into the camera; dressed in a bright turquoise shirt

Without up, there can be no down.  Without tardy, there is no punctual.  Without the concept of difference, there can be no wrong or right, no faithless or faithful, no success and no failure, nor any other variation or degrees of any kind. No judgments.  All that is, is perfect. The very existence of opposites implies the absence of balance. Think of a see-saw with one end on the ground, the other wildly in the air. This is up and down.  Then think of the same see-saw at rest at a point of equilibrium, poised in harmony and balance.

 

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 In one world, how can there be people who never have enough food, and others battling their weight? Can you imagine how the weight-battlers would be understood by those who never have enough to eat?

They could not understand it.

Could you imagine there could be any understanding in the mind of an overeater, of the depression and grimness of seeing others die of hunger?

Brothers, there cannot be.  One inkling of their plight would make him rise up and say, “An end to all misery and suffering!  Myself, I have enough. Let me share with the brothers who do not.”

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That this kind of disparity can exist in the same world, is only understandable when we reflect that the different parts of the Self are not communicating. They are denying themselves, imagining they are different and separate from one another. You focus relentlessly on how you are different, by gender, size, shape, color, wealth, looks, all superficial things, all related to the world of form.

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How many of our ills come from this horrible tunnel vision which keeps us imagining differences between our brothers and our Self! Let me not be so relentlessly focused on propping up the feeble ego. Oh God, spare me this. Enlarge my vision that I may see every brother as myself. Let me take as good and loving care of each brother, as I would take of myself, as though each brother were really me.

Imagine the world you could have

See instead the devastation that has ensued from the belief in difference.

On the one hand, rampant greed and overconsumption; on the other, hunger and starvation. There are the permanently dispossessed, and all those whose lives are ended or upended because of fighting.

This is the world in which you see yourselves as separate.

Is it not time to stop this now?

partial vision

As an experiment, seeing all brothers as one could hardly be worse that the present, out-of-control system. Let us try this experiment. Since there is nothing to lose, since we can hardly make anything worse, this is not gambling.  The result is assured.

You could live together in peace and harmony, all caring for all, sharing the earth’s resources and nourishing the earth.

Who would not want this?

Forgive the idea of differences

Forgive difference

What is fighting but an extreme way of emphasizing differences? Forgive any idea of differences right now. Throw comparisons out of the window. Let there be no more black or white, rich or poor, male or female, gay or straight, married or not, real or fake, clever or stupid, all the myriad little ways of looking at brothers and seeing only differences.

You must be vigilant in this, as all your perception is primed to notice differences. Be patient in this.

differences 12Where I now find differences, let me instead perceive oneness. We are all cut from the same cloth, members of one family. Our fates are intertwined.  I cannot have safety and security, if you do not.  If you experience distress and fear, I cannot find peace. When I realize this, and internalize it, I will be unable to act or support any action that threatens the safety and comfort of any other brother.

Inclusion is always better than exclusion

A gnarly old tree trunk, its branches intertwining.

PARADOX CONTAINS TRUTH

 

If you realize that you have enough, you are truly rich.

By not claiming greatness, the sage achieves greatness.

The gentle outlasts the strong.  The obscure outlasts the obvious.

One gains by losing, and loses by gaining.

 

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True words often appear paradoxical

 

Lao Tzu, the Tao Te Ching

 

A paradox is a seeming contradiction, two opposites that can never be reconciled.   Another example of a paradox would be, “Life is death.” Life and death are certainly opposites in the estimation of the world.

 

Let us examine the paradox to see what truths it may yield. Life is death; from the moment you are born into this physical body, it is on a destination to its physical extinction. All of its life is but a journey unto death.

 

 

Turn the paradox around.  Death is life. What truths could it yield?  Death is life. At the death of the physical body, there is release to the life eternal, where you came from and where you have always existed. No matter who the physical body incarnated as, death is the gateway to everlasting life.

The juxtaposition of seeming opposites produces extreme contrast, yielding truths not evident before.

It is in giving we receive

These words of St Francis seem to be a paradox, because surely giving is the very opposite of receiving. By giving something, you lose it and someone else gains it.

 

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Examine the seeming paradox to see in what sense it could be true. To give is to receive.  This would make sense if you were giving to yourself, because then you would be the only recipient of all the giving you did, which would encourage you to do more and more, as there could be no penalty but only increase in giving.

So in the sense that we are all one and connected, is giving indeed the same as receiving.  Every person I might possibly give to, is my Self.

 

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How quaint the ways of paradox

At common sense she gently mocks

W.S. Gilbert, “The Pirates of Penzance”

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